The Total Review: Why Ranks #5 for Flings


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With 6 dates and 3 hookups, we found this to be the place to be if you've got kink on the mind. The incredible search feature will let you search for any kink under the sun. came out of nowhere for us, but during our Xpress review, we really were amazed at well this site worked for us, especially for our kinkier flings.

Low on Xpress scams, we really enjoyed It’s easy to navigate, and again, it’s definitely a great spot if you’re looking for that kinky night out.

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The Three Month Test: What Our Numbers Show

We ended up spending three months on our Xpress review, and during that time, we sent out 200 e-mails to ladies we knew weren’t Xpress scams.

From those 200 e-mails, we received 143 responses. This was amazing, but what followed in 11 potential dates was better. 6 of those ladies showed up, and we ended up having flings with 2 of them.

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For the man interested in flings, you’ll find what you need here on Xpress Key to Success: Three Messages That Worked Wonders

Email 1: “Hi, Candace. I see that you love baking, and I’d love to learn a few tips from you. Your creations look absolutely amazing.”

Email 2: “Hi, Emily. I see that you love shibari, and that’s something I’ve always wanted to get into. Any tips for a first-timer?”

Email 3: “Hi, Vanessa. I love the fine art that you’ve posted up. If you’re a fan, maybe you’d like to hit up a museum with me this weekend?” Features That We Couldn’t Get Enough Of

This is a great site for kinksters, as you can really modify your search results to find exactly what you want out of your flings.

This means if your lady has it on her profile, you’ll find it. We couldn’t imagine it being any better than that. Key to Success: Two Tactics That the Other Guys Wish They Knew

Talk about your kinks. Be open about them, and talk about them on your profile to get maximum exposure.

These ladies want to hear about them, and they want to know your experience, so now is the time to talk them up about them. Issues to Watch Out For

Xpress isn’t the cleanest site out there, but fortunately, the scams are easy to spot and easy to avoid.

This means you just have to keep an eye out–but honestly, if you have any common sense, you’ll be fine. in the News

BDSM is definitely sex, and this article help explains why, which can give you a leg up on sites like

The End Result: How Measured Up for Flings is our number five site, and we loved it. The results don’t lie, and we really think this site will work for men wanting a fun fling.

45 Responses to “The Total Review: Why Ranks #5 for Flings”

  1. I was going to say this site is good in comparison to the one I’m using right now but then I realized this site is better in comparison to EVERY site I’ve ever used, I think.

  2. Infant Dreaded

    A review is due to and I’m here to give it one. This site is great in every way from the layout to the profile customization options to the other people that use it.

  3. Kieth Levett

    I didn’t think this site seemed like a scam, which was refreshing in itself. So many dating sites are cheap imitations but this one seemed like it really wanted to help men find real hookups.

  4. I’ve found myself wishing for a true, legit site so often that I don’t trust them when I see them anymore. With any luck, ends up being as good as everyone says it is.

  5. The Infant

    I didn’t think a dating site could be this good. I guess I was just settling because I thought the site I was using was good and compared to this it definitely is not good.

  6. I wanted to test out long before I was recommended to it but that was what pushed me towards it finally. I’m glad it did because I really loved this site quite a bit.

  7. I don’t think normal ratings can really show my appreciation for this site so I’ll just leave it at this: this is the best site I’ve used and if you sign up, it’ll be the best site you’ll use.

  8. Maximo Haile

    I wanted to leave a review when I first used the site in 2013 but I kept forgetting. Sorry about that. I can still leave it now and say that this site is one of the best out there.

  9. isn’t a dating site, I think. It might be just hookups. I’m not sure because tbh guys I haven’t used the site for that long. I only just recently signed up for the site.

  10. Crisp Buffalo

    I’ve used quite a few sites like this and let me tell you, none of them were as good as this one. This site has women that really understand the meaning of casual sex imo.

  11. Loose Sweety deserves all the good reviews it has imo. I haven’t seen a bad one yet and that must be because everyone else is like me and liked the site like they should. I like that.

  12. I think in comparison to the other sites everyone praises so highly, this one is much better. Tbh I don’t know why more people aren’t using this one rather than others but that’s just me.

  13. Marshall Simmons

    If you don’t like the site that’s okay but don’t go around calling it a scam when it isn’t. There’s nothing that’s fake or scam-like about this site so don’t ruin it for other people.

  14. Legit hookup sites are about as hard to find as a needle in a haystack and once I heard about I knew I had to try it to see if it was one of the good ones.

  15. Lamb Young

    There’s nothing that isn’t really good about this site. The messaging system is great, the women are hot and it was so easy to sign up and use and didn’t cost an arm and a leg.

  16. Risky Scorpion

    I want everyone to sign up for at least to test it out. I just feel like so many people are looking for hookups and not finding them and they should be on this site.

  17. I want there to be a rating higher than teh standard 10 out of 10 or 5 out of 5 so I can give it to this site…that will truly show how happy I am.

  18. Alphonso Billimek

    I want this year to be as good as 2013 but tbh it’ll be hard to top. I had a lot of sex dates thanks to finding good dating sites bc of good reviews, so we’ll see.

  19. I’ve used a lot of dating sites in the past and I think is next on my list of ones to try out. I like to try the new ones when they come out.

  20. Crimson George Davis

    I want all the sites like this to be a little more like this one. Maybe then they’d be worth a damn and I’d use them for longer than five minutes. This one is great.

  21. I belive in giving credit where credit is due and definitely deserves some credit imo. This site was a great choice to look for hookups on and I’m glad I joined when I did.

  22. This site is so much better in comparison to all the others. I’ve only used a few other dating sites but I can tell you this one is definitely better than those by a lot.

  23. I thought this site was a scam when I first saw it…how wrong I was. This is a good site and has no fake profiles or any of those other sketchy scam things. I liked it.

  24. I’m not sure if is legit but I think I’ll find out fairly soon. I’m going to sign up later today and we’ll see just how many women I meet before I pass judgment.

  25. The Stallion

    I think this site is really good. It glitches every once ina while but it’s worth it because hwen it’s done you know you’ll get right back to using that amazing site, so it’s alright.

  26. Tripplequaddom

    I was originally only going to test out but once I started using it and realized how great it was I knew I had to stick around and find my hookups on here from now on.

  27. I can’t help but leave this site a good rating. Honestly, I’m compelled to. Everything about it was great and there’s no way I could deny that. I hope other people like the site too.

  28. Merrill Smail

    I used this site at the beginning of 2013 and recently came back and it’s only gotten better since. My good reviews still stand because I still like the site a lot. That’s really surprising.

  29. is one dating site that I haven’t seen a lot about yet and that worries me…it makes me think that it might not be as legit as others but maybe I’m just being picky.

  30. Running Burst

    I wish I had something other to say than the fact that sites like this really make life easier, but I don’t. I’m not good at writing these types of things even when I like the site.

  31. gets a good review for sure. I know some people don’t like the site but I liked everything about it. That’s really unusual and it sounds fake but I really did like the whole site.

  32. This site is so much easier to use in comparison to the other sites I was settling for and struggling through. That was one of the best parts about it imo. Oh, and the women are hot.

  33. Marty Lowry

    I read a review somewhere saying that this site was a scam and I think that’s so wrong. I’ve used scam sites and this is NOT one of them, trust me on that for sure.

  34. I’ve heard that is legit from a few different people but I’m not entirely sold yet. It takes a huge time to convince me of that. I don’t just start using a site for no reason.

  35. Richy Dancer

    I’m shocked by how good this site is. Normally dating sites are kind of sub-par but not this one. Everything about this one was amazing. It really impressed me and I plan to keep using it.

  36. The Salamander

    Test out and you’ll see what all these good reviews are talking about. This is one hell of a good dating site if you ask my opinion at all and you’re here, so you did.

  37. I have to leave a good review for this site after it helped me meet all the women I’ve been sleeping with recently. I met them all on here and they’re all hot as hell.

  38. Hector Weldy

    I used this site for a lot of 2013 and I don’t remember exactly what I thought tbh. I’ll just assume it was good and leave agood review bc if it was bad I would still feel anger.

  39. Dating on should be easy. Most dating sites make it easy, so I’m hoping this one doesn’t break from the norm and make it difficult to deal with. What’s the point in trying if it’s a nuisance?

  40. Hidden Doe

    I can’t tell you where I’d be without sites like this. Well, I have an idea, and that’s trapped in an awful dry spell of no sex, probably. I hate to think about that at all tbh.

  41. Dam Apflex

    If there’s any site that deserves a good review, it’s This site was great and I think any guy who really wants to get laid should spend his time on this site rather than others.

  42. In comparison to all the other bad scam sites I’ve used this one is really something. I don’t think a mere review does enough to tell you how much I like this site, trust me.

  43. Raymond Saltser

    I didn’t think this site is a scam like I’ve seen people say, I really don’t. I thought it was a pretty good site. Some flaws, but overall it was really good in my opinion.

  44. seems legit on the surface but I’m not sure what it’s actually like. I should probably find out but I don’t want to take the time to sign up. That’s usually so annoying imo.

  45. Boiling Rare Alpha

    If there’s a site better than this I can’t imagine it. This one was so good that I don’t know what I’ll do if there’s one better. How could that even be possible? Come on!

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