If you’re not in the habit of bragging about your conquests you’re a more polite man then most. Almost every guy lets a little something slip when they’re chatting with their friends. While your willpower is incredible, you may be cheating yourself out of all kinds of opportunities that depend on you at least acknowledging that you have a sex life. Here are three great reasons to at least let your buddies know you hooked up last night.
Makes It Clear You’re on the Market
Dates get you more dates. This is especially true if you are friends or coworkers with married men. Women who are married love to set up unmarried friends. They want all their friends to be paired up so that they can double date, etc. The easiest way for them to pair up their single friends is with their husband’s single friends. If you make it clear to your buddy that you’re available and interested in meeting more ladies, his wife is going to know just the woman for you. You’re going to have dates served up to you on a silver platter. If she’s not your type, you don’t have to see her again, but this is probably the easiest way to get dates. All you have to do is make sure your friends know you’re looking for a lady.
Boosts Your Confidence
It’s one thing to have a good game. It’s another to be able to talk about it. If you’re giving someone else the play by play of your amazing date the night before, you can bet that it’s going to be instilled in your mind. This means that any time you might start to feel like you’re not a stud you can remember your conquests in greater clarity. Plus, you have the positive reinforcement of every man you hang out with wishing that he could have been you last night. Save up the best stories so that when one of your buddies gets too confident that he has the best way with the ladies you can knock him down a peg. Women love confidence in men, and you’re only going to be a better lover because you’re confident. Win for you and the ladies you date.
She’ll Be Gossiping to Her Girlfriends
Don’t kiss and tell came from an entirely different time, socially. If you think that there’s a chance that a woman you sleep with will become the town outcast for promiscuity then you should probably keep it to yourself. If not, where’s the harm? Women chatter to their girlfriends all the time about the guys they hook up with. You’re not doing anything that she’s not doing. How exactly are you protecting, if not her? There’s no need to save someone who’s telling the same stories on herself. Don’t hold back anymore.
The new rule of “don’t kiss and tell” is “no harm, no foul.” When women are gossiping to women about whom they sleep with, what’s the problem? Enjoy the boosts to your confidence and make it clear that you’re available at the same time by not hiding when you score.