If you ever feel guilty about swapping stories with the guys, don’t. Some bawdy jokes and locker room story swapping actually makes things better for the ladies you hook up with. If you want to wow them and yourself, make sure that you don’t hold back the next time the guys are comparing hot celebrities and the merits of small and perky versus big and heavy.
It Boosts Your Confidence
The more confidently you can speak about sex, the more confident you’ll be when you’re having sex. Even in this day and age, so much about sex is hidden in shame and awkwardness. If you’re not afraid to say what you like when you’re around your buddies how could you tell a woman you just met to turn over? Share some laughs and discuss sex in an open and frank manner. You’ll be a happier person. Your partners will benefit from your new confidence. Give it a try; she’ll notice the difference.
Helps You Define What You Like
The more ideas that you’re exposed to, the more you know what you really want from your relationships. Locker room talk is a very effective way to broaden your horizons. Personal recommendations on position, activities, and the kinds of women to look for can completely change your strategy. If you take recommendations on what restaurant to try or what movie to watch, why shouldn’t you consider the input of your buddies when it comes to picking out what you want to try next. Even if you don’t really take what they say into literal consideration, you can still tell what gets you interested and what makes you tune out. If your buddy mentions the kinky things a lady he picked up at a specific club wanted him to do to her and it turns you off, you know to steer clear of the ladies who go to that bar for a night out. Knowing what you want makes it easier to find a woman to share that with. It’s as simple as that.
Pick up Some Tips
Similar to the above, but you actually think about what your friends recommend. If you have a buddy who claims he had the best sex of his life that night by bending her over the couch arm and you’ve never tried it, you suddenly have something new to suggest. If he comes in with a complaint about how holding his lady up against the wall totally threw his back out, you can listen to the things he’d suggest instead of that to still get that in control feeling. You have more ideas for the bedroom, and your creativity will wow the women that you bring home. They’re happier, you’re happier, and it all comes from talking the talk in the locker room.
It may go against the grain for you to sit up and listen when a man starts going on about his conquests, but if you do and participate in the conversation the women in your life will be thanking you.