People use online dating to find love, and people use online dating to find sex. You’ll rarely find them in the same place. It can be difficult to tell just from her profile if a woman is out for love or sex. When you look for these three specific signs, though, things become a lot easier to work out. If she’s got two out of the three, you’re looking at a good time. If she’s got all three she’s basically a sure thing.
She Mentions Being a Long Time Dating Site User
Women looking for romance online give up easily. There’s not a big payoff in it for them. They go on a few dates, nothing works out, and they decide that the men online are only looking for sex. They quit, and fast. A woman who sticks with online dating has to be getting something out of it. The most obvious thing would be sex. She’s not looking to stay together forever; she’s trying to find a guy for the night. The internet is full of guys willing to be her one night stand.
Her Profile Pics Show More Boob than Face
A woman trying to get attention online will throw out a little cleavage to get your attention. After all, it’s hard for a pretty smile to stand out when it’s sandwiched between pictures of women less afraid to show off what they’ve got. So one or two pics that show her assets aren’t a sure bet. However, if she’s got ten pictures of her body and only two of them show her face in anything close to a natural expression you’re looking at a woman who is advertising sex. You don’t advertise what you’re not hoping to get attention for. If she’s willing to give you a good show just for stopping by her profile you can bet that she’s going to be willing to do more if you take her out for the evening. Take advantage of the least subtle signals a woman can give and look for sex with the ladies who pose well for a camera.
Her Message Me If Section Suggests Meeting Up
At the end of the profile there’s always the “you should message me if…” section. If she flat out suggests meeting up in this section, you don’t even have to worry about another thing. “Message me if you want to meet up or hang out sometime,” isn’t even a subtle invitation. She doesn’t want to talk, flirt, or live it up. She wants to meet up right away and is only interested in hearing from men who want that too. With that in mind, you should definitely message her to meet up. She couldn’t be any clearer about what she has in mind.
One of these signs is a pretty good indication that she’s open to casual sex. Two, and you should definitely send a message her way. All three means that you’ve got a winner and should clear your weekend schedule: you just found your plans.