The prevalence of texting has seriously changed the dating scene, whether you think it’s for better or for worse. Either way, texting is a quick and easy way to communicate without ever having to meet face to face. While there are negative aspects, such as being broken up via text, there’s also plenty of benefits to texting someone you are dating or hooking up with – and not just for a booty call. If you text your girlfriend or hookup the right way, you can make her happy, and all guys know that if a girl is happy, she’s going to be more enjoyable to be around. This, in turn, will make your relationship better, no matter how long or short term you want it to be.
Text Her before and after Your Dates
Texting a girl before your first date can be a great way to let her know how much you’re thinking about her without being too pushy. Let her know that you’re looking forward to the date. This will also let her know that you’re serious about seeing her and you’re going to be on the ball with your date. Make the text something lighthearted and a little flirty without making it seem too serious. You can also text her after a date, but make sure not to do it immediately, since that would be a bit strange. Wait a day or two before you text her about how much you enjoyed your date and how much you look forward to seeing her again – this will tell her how much you look forward to seeing her, and it’s bound to make her smile and think fondly of you too.
Regular Texts about Your Day
You should try not to bombard your date with too many texts, but texting her in the morning when you get up can go over well if you do it right. Women seem to enjoy guys texting them a good morning greeting, since it shows you think about them as soon as you wake up. You should continue texting her throughout the day if you have a particularly close relationship and you don’t mind getting texted back frequently. Keep it lighthearted and share details about your day with her, but if you have anything that would make a good story during a date, save it for later.
Flirting for Fun
Guys are used to sexting and sending texts when they want a booty call, but flirting lightheartedly can be a good way to make sure your date is always thinking about you without making things seem too focused on sex. Send her texts about how good she looked during your last date, or tell her how much you’re thinking about your next date or next kiss. Let her know you can’t stop thinking about how soft her lips are or the way she laughs. This seems a bit over the top and romantic, but women will eat it up and appreciate the fact that you’re spending time thinking about her even while she’s away.