If you’re trying to make sure that you go home with a woman tonight, here are the things that you need to let her know to make this happen. All ladies need to have these four basic boxes ticked before they can make up their mind to go home with you. It doesn’t matter if this is your first date, tenth date, or you just met in a bar: tell her these things and you’ll have removed the major obstacles to you hooking up.
You Want Her
This is the most basic thing you can say, but you need to spell it out. You can make it so obvious that you’re interested, but if you don’t actually say that you’re ready to go home with her tonight you’re not being as clear as you can be. Women often use uncertainty as a reason not to hook up. If you take this excuse from her, you’ll find that her last self-esteem issues clear up and she’s a lot more willing to go home with you.
No one wants to feel like they’re just a warm body. If you really want to get with her, you need to impress her with the fact that she’s not like other women. It doesn’t matter how you choose to do it, whether you can have more intellectual conversations with her than with anyone else, or if you’ve never felt so comfortable with someone so quickly. Say she’s unique and she’ll be eating out of the palm of your hand.
You are a Good Lover
She wants to know that it’s going to be worth her time, too. Rather than keep her guessing, you should try to make it clear that you’d be willing to rock her world. It wouldn’t just be all about you. This can be hard to imply without being too forward, so keep it for vague phrases like you can take care of her. This gives her the idea that you’re a generous lover without being so forward that she’s uncomfortable continuing the date with you.
How Things Will Be After
This is incredibly important. Usually described in the question, “Will you still respect me in the morning?” women need to know what the consequences of sleeping with you are going to be. If you’re interested in her, you need to indicate that even after you sleep with her you’re going to be happy to take her out and do romantic things with her. On the other hand, if you’re looking for a one night stand and so is she, you can show that you’re really just into her smoking hot body. Either way, she needs to know what things will be like. Once she feels like she knows what the future will be like, she can decide whether or not she wants that to happen.
Once you’ve given her these four things, a woman has all the information she need to be able to decide to go home with you. Include this information and watch your success rate skyrocket.